The brick continues to be the primary tool investment and wealth in Italy, so that at the end of 2009, housing wealth held by Italian households amounted to around 4,800 billion euro, or about 200 thousand euro on average per household. According to the Bank of Italy
in housing wealth has grown at current prices from late 2008 through the end of 2009 some 0.3% (about € 13 billion), a value well below the annual average for the period 1995-2008 (about 6.3% due to the slowdown in prices on the real estate market). In real terms, the change in housing wealth compared to 2008 was equal to about 0.4% while, for the first half of 2010 is estimated to increase the value of wealth in housing than 1%.
Remax of the best companies to work better than the Milan
I am pleased to announce that for the second consecutive year, RE / MAX Italy has deservedly won a place among the 35 best companies to work in Italy. Also for the fact 2011 Great Place to Work ®, following an investigation the company conducted on a random sample of Affiliates RE / MAX across Italy, was elected RE / MAX among the best companies in Italy, for business climate. In addition, RE / MAX has also improved its ranking, moving from 27th position to 15th! The official announcement of the survey was since December 13, in a special supplement published in the most prestigious financial newspaper, Il Sole 24 Ore.
Good news for the housing market in Milan, which last quarter stood at substantial levels of stability, both for the number of transactions that the 'price trend.
And 'what emerges from the data collected in Milan from RE / MAX Italy, which is part of the most popular network of international real estate franchise, and in Milan has 142 real estate consultants in 12 affiliated agencies. Positive
also forecasts for 2011, for which we continue to speak of a substantial price stability and supply, as they predict slight increases in demand and number of transactions.
definitely better than being waged overseas, where data collected by the network RE / MAX in different metropolitan areas of stable prices but instead speak of a fall in transactions of more than 30% over 2009. A drop definitely influenced by the end of the federal incentives Tax Credit, but still worrying, if you think about the negative forecasts published no later than a couple of months ago by influential publications like Time and The New York Times.
Ben seems to be different instead of the Italian situation – come già aveva avuto modo di commentare Dario Castiglia, Presidente di RE/MAX Italia – dove, per tradizione e cultura, il mattone continua e continuerà ad essere considerato il miglior investimento, caposaldo e fondamento del risparmio familiare, come dimostrano i dati del mercato milanese.
Qui, come nel resto d’Italia, l’acquisto dell’abitazione rispetto all’affitto continua infatti ad essere la scelta privilegiata degli over 35, con una percentuale che si attesta intorno all’86% di coloro che hanno un’età compresa fra i 35 e i 50 anni, e che sale addirittura al 95% nel caso degli over 50, soprattutto se si tratta di coppie (71%) e famiglie (100%). Optano instead to lease 75% of those aged between 20 and 35 years and 90% of singles, notably a preference for central areas of the city, closer to the "movida milanese".
On May 6, 2010 the law came into force May 22, 2010, No. 73, converting Decree No. 40/2010. The law allows for planned maintenance communicated in writing to the City, before opening the site, the work began, with the attached project and a technical report, signed by a qualified professional. will no longer need to wait 30 days before to begin the work. The rationalization affects the work on building units which do not affect the structural parts of the building with no increase in the number of living spaces and change the intended use, as well as those relating exclusively to the outside and work towards the integration of sanitation and technology. Among the changes introduced, the most important is the removal of engraved that the new rules laid down in the area of \u200b\u200bbuilding activity free, shall apply "unless more restrictive provisions of the regional framework." The change seems to introduce a uniform regulation of building free, aimed at establishing a minimum level of simplification. Consequently, in the Lombardy Region is the immediate application simplified scheme outlined at the state level.
The dry coupon on rents is a new tax on leases amounted to a withdrawal of 20%. It will be operational from next year, as an alternative to voluntary withdrawal "traditional" and applies to all types of lease, including, in this group, although the leases with negotiated rents.
Let's find out the main characteristic features: From 1 January 2011, the rate on dry lease becomes equal to 20%, will be unique, and will not make any distinction for special leases negotiated rents. The rate shall be applied taking as reference a tax base equal to 100% of the rent (as opposed to "old" 85% previously in force).
the contract is agreed rent, the tax base is equal to 59.5% of the rent, while there is an exemption for the letting of residential property in the context of professional practice or business.
This year, much to my satisfaction, I have classified Top 50 in Remax Real Estate Consultants in Italy.
This will allow me to attend an exclusive event that each year the President of RE / MAX Italy organizes for Best Real Estate Consultants RE / MAX in Italy, who have distinguished themselves for achievements in the development of its activities.
Ministry to simplify the rules explained with a note that the Shah , Signaling certified Login introduced with the maneuver summer, will replace the Dia, reports of login.
How does the new procedure: becomes possible to start dei lavori nel giorno stesso della segnalazione dell’interessato all’amministrazione preposta, senza attendere i 30 giorni previsti dalla precedente disciplina, ferma restando la possibilità di effettuare verifiche in corso d’opera.
La segnalazione deve essere corredata dalle dichiarazioni sostitutive di certificazioni e atto di notorietà previsti dal Dpr 445/2000, dalle attestazioni e asseverazioni dei tecnici abilitati, dalle dichiarazioni di conformità rilasciate dall'Agenzia delle imprese, dagli elaborati tecnici necessari per consentire le verifiche di competenza dell'amministrazione. Le autocertificazioni sostituiscono i pareri di organi o enti appositi, così come l'esecuzione di verifiche preventive previste by law.
If a finding is a lack of requirements, the Board may adopt measures prohibiting the continuation of the activity and removal of adverse effects within 60 days of receipt of the alert. After expiry of this period of silence is the rule - consent, unless there is a risk of serious and irreparable damage to the artistic and cultural heritage, environment, health and public safety.
In the case of false or misleading statements the Administration may prohibit the continuation of the work, impose penalties of one to three years imprisonment or those available under Chapter VI of the Presidential Decree 445/2000.
The worst is past, or should we really expect a crisis even more black? Impossible not to ask ourselves in front of the news these days that run on the real estate market.
ISTAT data last week and the survey on the housing market published by Bank of Italy in recent days, for Italy shows encouraging signs of recovery, Trading and loan growth in the first quarter of 2010 and a slowdown of the depreciation of prices in the second quarter.
A cautious optimism, however, collides with more and more insistent voices coming from the U.S. media, from Time to The New York Times, that house prices are set to fall and remain so low as to render meaningless the investment in bricks and mortar United States. A pessimism that could reach Europe.
RE / MAX Italy is part of this virtual diatribe reassuring news for Italian investors, thus meeting, among others, the warning appeared in the columns of the Time on September 6 last year: "There is no time to buy a house."
"There are significant differences between the U.S. housing market and Italian: the first is influenced by the great amount of maturity and a further increase in mortgage foreclosures, which inflazionerà the supply of property, price falls, while - Dario says Castiglia, president of RE / MAX Italy - Italian situation is very different, where the influences come from factors such as higher employment levels. "
"The domestic market is experiencing at this time a sort of 'technical rebound' down - says Castile - which means that for some time will see a down trend. As pointed out by Istat for the year the trend is a slight increase in sales that - provides RE / MAX - will settle the year-end levels substantially stable compared to 2009, while attending a rise in prices will take more time than that estimated for Trading. "
Obviously the economic recovery in Italy - and therefore the trend in employment levels - can not be separated totally from the situation overseas, as well as the fact that in Europe the recovery is struggling to take off, it helps to maintain a situation of uncertainty for the market.
"During the 1995 crisis - remember Castile - despite the darkest weather, the market did not suffer il tanto temuto crollo, ma sfociò invece nel boom degli anni 2000.
Siamo quindi pronti a scommettere che anche in questo caso il mercato si riprenderà, e che, almeno in Italia, dove l'investimento immobiliare è fortemente radicato nella cultura nazionale e da sempre caposaldo del risparmio famigliare, il mattone continuerà ad essere un buon investimento, destinato a rivalutarsi nel tempo».
Il pensiero espresso da RE/MAX risulta oggi essere condiviso anche oltreoceano, dove diversi opinion leader del settore immobiliare stanno smentendo la visione pessimistica espressa anche dal New York Times, con una più positiva legata alla lenta ma prossima ripresa del mercato come sostiene nella sua replica Brett Arends su sito del WSJ dal titolo “10 reasons to buy a Home”.
Nullity deeds in the absence of compliance of the cards land
Il Decreto Legge recante “Misure urgenti in materia di stabilizzazione finanziaria e di competitività economica” introduce, Article .19, No 14, new cases of nullity of deeds relating to the matter of transfer of real estate.
The Decree obliges to indicate, in deeds as well as the identification register, a reference to plans deposited in the Land Registry and the statement (made by the nominee) in accordance with the state of data and cadastral plans.
It is stressed that the invalidity, in addition to being the most severe sanctions regulated directions, can be invoked at any time by anyone who is interested.
For leases there is a major innovation, namely the obligation to indicate in the contract cadastral data of buildings.
Reviewing the tables thousandth And in a condominium
since 9 August, with the ruling of the Supreme Court No. 18,477, no longer need unanimity to modify the establishment of condominiums thousandth, but just a majority vote Assembly.
Where was the problem? If a condominium such as closing a balcony or, worse yet, living on the top floor decides to raise the building, what happened so far?
What happened was that instead of increasing expenses, continued to pay the same based on the tables because thousandth not be changed except by unanimous del'assemblea. It goes without saying that the condominium should pay more has never agreed to the modification of tables, and then it becomes impossible to change. This has resulted in numerous past disputes and civil cases.
From 1 July 2010 to present the ACE is now mandatory in the case of leases, leasing and rental company, which consists of a single unit or multi-unit housing estate . The certificate must be delivered in original or certified copy to the tenant by the landlord, both in the case of a new contract in the event of renewal (whether espresso o tacito).
E’ prevista una sanzione amministrativa da € 2.500,00 a 10.000,00 per il locatore che non ottempera all’obbligo di consegna dell’ACE al locatario.
"Non pretendiamo che le cose cambino se continuiamo a farle nello stesso modo. La crisi è la miglior cosa che possa accadere a persone e interi paesi perché è proprio la crisi a portare il progresso. La creatività nasce dall'ansia, come il giorno nasce dalla notte oscura. E‘ nella crisi che nasce l'inventiva, le scoperte e le grandi strategie. Chi supera la crisi supera se stesso senza essere superato. Chi attribuisce le sue sconfitte e i suoi errori alla crisis, violent and respects their talent more problems that solutions. The real crisis is the crisis of incompetence. The mistake of the people and country is laziness in finding solutions. Without a crisis there are challenges, without challenges life is routine, a slow death. Without a crisis there are no merits. E 'in the crisis better than any of us any crisis emerges because without wind is a caress. Talk of crisis is to create movement, lie down on it means to enhance conformity. Instead of this, we work hard! The only crisis is threatening the tragedy of not wanting to fight to overcome it. "
According to a recent study by Banca Monte dei Paschi di Siena real estate market is recovering and is expected for 2010, an increase in the number of sales of 2%.
As in past years, Italy had nothing to do with speculation on house prices (he says the study) as they did in contrast to other countries, especially Anglo-Saxons, there were no extras the abrupt downward adjustments in these countries.
Speaking of new investment, new housing does not exceed the actual demand for housing even though it should be noted a drop in new development in the order of 12% which is smaller than that of 2009 amounting to -19%.
The luxury housing market stands in contrast to all the real estate landscape by an increase of the total turnover of about three times compared to 2007-2008, due to the increasing demand by foreign investors of real estate in cities and tourist resorts.
important and growing market is also the rustic country houses, the area also being targeted by foreign investors: selling prices in the industry grew during the years 1999 to 2009 an average annual rate very high, approximately 14%.
Even after the crisis of 2008-2009 the market seems to recover slowly, returning to values \u200b\u200bnot yet completely positive but overall acceptable.
From 1 July 2010, becomes mandatory energy certification for all leases, leasing, rental business including real estate, and whether new or renewed, referring to one or more units.
I bring you some interesting questions to which a cened responded on his website:
I concluded a lease for residential purposes which will be automatically renewed on July 15, I must ask the owner of the ACE?
Yes, under point 9.2 g) of dgr VIII / 8745, the owner, even if the automatic renewal of the lease, the lessee shall surrender the ACE.
I signed a lease for a property to 30 June, I ask the owner of the ACE?
No, according to point 9.2 g) of dgr VIII / 8745, the contract must be completed (and recorded) with effect from 1 July 2010
In the case of finalizing the lease, what are the penalties payable by the landlord that the tenant does not deliver the ACE?
The landlord does not fulfill his obligation to deliver ACE to the driver, incurs the administrative penalty of € 2,500.00 to € 10,000
requirements needed to take advantage of the first house are:
should not have the luxury features indicated in the Ministerial Decree 2 August 1969 , in "Official Gazette" 218 of 27/08/1969, while the category is not relevant register;
must be located in the town where the buyer has their own residenza o in cui intende stabilirla entro 18 mesi dall' acquisto (il termine è stato elevato da 12 a 18 mesi dal 1° gennaio 2001), oppure nel Comune in cui l'aquirente svolge la propria attività;
se l'acquirente si è trasferito all'estero per lavoro, l' immobile deve essere situato nel Comune ove ha sede o esercita l'attività l'azienda da cui dipende;
l'immobile può essere ubicato in qualsiasi Comune del territorio italiano se l'acquirente è cittadino italiano residente all'estero (iscritto all'Aire);
per fruire delle agevolazioni prima casa non è necessario che l'immobile acquistato sia destinato ad abitazione propria e/o dei familiari, so much so that the facilities can be purchased with "first home" even rented a house or rent after purchase (Circular No. 19 / E, 1 March 2001 and 1 / E, March 2, 1994).
The buyer, or buyers, must declare the act of sale:
not be the exclusive owner (100% owner) or in communion with the spouse (co-ownership with someone other than the spouse is no impediment ) property rights, usufruct, use and habitation of another dwelling house in the municipality where the property is situated to be purchased facilitated
not to be the owner, or even to share in communion with legal the spouse, on the whole national territory, property rights or bare ownership, usufruct, use and habitation on another home purchase, even by a spouse, taking advantage of tax breaks first home.
to undertake to establish residency, within 18 months of purchase, in the municipality where the property is situated to buy, if not already resides there.
Dear Friends, this is the last post I write about Taste of Mother Earth. In more than a year, since this blog has been opened, a lot of things have happened and if I look back I can only be fulfilled at 100% of the way done. Life is flowing water, fire, passion, and freedom of the concreteness of the earth, life is a spiral of energy that never stops and changes shape and color, as well as for flavors of Mother Earth that becomes 1 2 3 in cooking! The name came from the creativity of volcanic Antoine and Raphael in a special Sunday in March:-D. The site was designed by all'inventiva del mio geniale cognato Paolo Cacciagrano supportato dalla mia sorellina Monica . Una nuova avventura ha inizio e spero che Tutti Voi, che mi leggete, continuerete a seguirmi! :-DDD
Alle volte la vita é strana ed imprevedibile, ti toglie certezze che al momento ti fanno urlare al cielo il tuo disappunto, ma poi ti guardi intorno e t'accorgi d'essere in posti magici che da sempre cercavi con anime belle che danno risposte alle tue domande. Quando, anni fa, cominciai il mio percorso biodanzante, il mio insegnate d'allora, Ugo Rizzo , alla prima lezione ci disse: " La Biodanza é per molti ma non per tutti. Il percorso che state per intraprendere You will understand the beauty of life and what is lost souls to be warm. " lukewarm souls is the boiled frog is talking about Barbara . Dell 'Anima warm also talked about the Curé d'Ars : "lukewarm soul is not completely dead in the eyes of God. In it the faith, hope and charity are not yet fully extinguished, but a faith without zeal, without a firm hope, a charity without zest. The lukewarm soul hears the word of God, but often bored, hears with difficulty, out of habit as a person who is confident enough to know ... The soul is full of warm good wishes, but in no way affects its bad habits. In the morning warm soul does not deal with God and his eternal salvation, but think only to work hard ... When you some good action is only to please someone, out of compassion or to be admired. It never ceases to attend the sacraments regularly to assist the functions, but reveals that his love for God is not in first place in his heart. " The noise of the world makes every effort to ensure the human being is a 'soul warm and many are for life without even realizing it, now deaf and insensitive to the earthquakes of the soul, but people like me who chose, despite being the easiest road, not to be and understands that courage is not not afraid, but to recognize and go beyond, they are immersed in WONDER . On the path of Wonder, I met Esther, a beautiful and sunny woman with whom I have the pleasure to share the love of cooking. I spent a wonderful week full of colors in your kitchen smelling of chatter among friends who confirm that everything you create and make love with magical powers has . Cooking with Esther and what they called a Rolando Toro vivencia and has been an experience I will confirm that on the right path because every cell of my body has felt honored to have contributed with their work to the wonderful week of intensive School Work and the Service. Seeing the commotion of the final farewell to Esther alievi me is reminded of the phrase " to the heart is always right. " Esther Thanks for reminding me.
Tarte Tatin
200 g flour 3 tablespoons milk
100 gr. butter salt to taste 1 egg yolk
1.5 kg of pears 150 gr. 150 grams of butter. sugar to taste lemon juice
with flour, milk, butter and egg (yolk only) to prepare a pastry crust. Peel the pears, dividing them into quarters or rather, into eighths and remove the core. Put in a bowl with water acidulated with lemon juice, or blacken. Take a pan of 25 cm., Buttered totally great abundance (a layer of at least two millimeters) using all the butter and sprinkle sugar completely, on the bottom and sides, forming a thick layer. Arrange pear slices in the pan, gently, without disturbing the layer of sugar, side by side and slightly overlapping, to form a crown. Continue filling the pan up to fill all cracks and covering the bottom. Put the pan on low heat for about 15 minutes and not emerge until you see the first signs of slightly caramelized sugar (ie, brown). The pears must cook a little, but just a little: they should not sfarsi. Turn off the heat and cover the pears with the pastry crust, tucking slightly between pears and rim of the pan. Bake at 180 degrees for about 15 minutes, until the dough takes color. Pull the pan from the oven, put on a serving plate and tip. The cake should be eaten warm, if you do not need right away, warm it before you carry it for a few minutes.
recipe appeared in the newsletter QBSPACE of Friday, March 26, 2010.
The tax deduction of 55% for energy conservation awards four types of interventions: riqualificazione globale, coibentazioni e finestre, pannelli solari termici e sostituzione di caldaie.
Per ognuno di questi è previsto un tetto massimo di spesa. Al momento – e salvo proroghe – il bonus è previsto per le spese sostenute fino al 31 dicembre di quest'anno e dovrà essere suddiviso in cinque rate annuali di uguale importo. Per le spese sostenute nel 2007 e nel 2008, la rateazione è diversa. La procedura per il 55% prevede l'invio telematico della documentazione all'Enea entro 90 giorni dalla fine dei lavori. La documentazione varia a seconda del tipo di intervento.
One year, 365 days, 4 seasons ... and much more to do. Among many rubble to be removed, there are also many flowers, small gestures that give hope for rebirth of new life. This my small and simple cream, white as a dove, is accompanying the fabulous Dove Sisters of Nurzia .
Dove Cream Soft
8 egg whites 500 grams of ricotta 200 grams of powdered sugar
Beat the egg whites until stiff hard with half the sugar. In a bowl mix the ricotta with the remaining sugar and add the egg whites gently. Serve on a slice of a dove.
I hope that Colombe 99 months ahead to continue to fly higher and higher into the sky and with them, Abruzzo.
The month of March is the year of all those that I have always got some surprises, including those of this year, the most important, and I join all effects of staff the way home. Along with the volcanic Esther April we The Kitchen of the Heart. Our meeting has brought new creative alchemy by opening new paths we are traveling together while maintaining our differences that make us unique. We understood, through games like Life of the Universe has won both a mainstay Melchizedek : Donation. Through the love that we have made in the preparation of our dishes we make the act of cooking a vivencia . Me and Esther In the key of Donation found as a lock that opens the door to the completion Kitchen . We have many projects in the pipeline with the scent of spices from the East Mediterranean colors which have the music and laughter of a family chat that is lost in the mists of time and the door is open to all of you who are looking for the secret recipe Happiness.
was a bit 'I had a poem I wrote some years ago on the sisterhood of women, although a bit' late and my best wishes to all women, especially those who are suffering, telling you that you are not alone, just Elongation hand and look into your heart where there is the courage that every woman is a lioness!
Sisterhood
Oh Goddess,
Thanks to my sisters,
Thanks for the Sacred Circle
Thanks for the energy they give me,
Thanks for Life Spiral I have given,
Thanks for the Moon and the Sun in Me,
Thank you for what I am and what I will from here to eternity, in a continuous dance to you.
also take this opportunity to advertise a seminar to better understand the phenomenon of stalking to be held in Varese Tuesday, March 23, 2010 - 18:00, conference with free admission at the Palace of the Province of Varese, Conference Room, Liberty Square 1. Organized by the Municipality and the Province of Varese in collaboration with the Italian Association of Psychology and Criminology - Centre National Stalking (Organizing 0332/809237).
In this regard, place an interesting article found on www.benessere.com which I hope will be helpful to many women but also men who are victims of this phenomenon.
stalking
Some behaviors such as phone calls, text messages, e-mail, "surprise visits" and even sending flowers or gifts, are welcome signs of affection, However, at times, can turn into real forms of persecution that can restrict the freedom of a person and of violating his privacy, reaching even those who are to scare the recipient against his will. to become "obsessive stalker" or "stalker" may be a known person with whom you had some kind of relationship or even a stranger with whom one has also clashed only by chance, perhaps for work purposes. Pursuit, harassment and persecution may manifest itself in many forms. They may be something can be persistent or sporadic manifestations of a social and psychological phenomenon known as the "stalking" but also called "syndrome of obsessive stalker," "obsessive pursuit" or even obsessional following. The more common terminology, that of "stalking" was coined for the purpose of representing symbolically, with an English language word that means "purpose", the attitude of those who put in place for this harassment and harassing is called a "stalker." The "harasser harassing" obvious, in fact, a complex set of behaviors that are well summarized by the words enclosed in "doing email" which includes the wait, the chase, collect information on the "victim" and its movements, behaviors that are almost always "typical" of all the stalkers, beyond the observed differences in the situation to situation. In fact, some studies on this phenomenon (Mullen PE & al., 2000) have distinguished two categories of conduct through which one can implement stalking. * The first type includes communications intrusive, which include all of the conduct with the purpose of transmitting messages over their emotions, needs, on the pulse on the desires or intentions, both affective states related to love (even through coercion or employees) that feelings of hatred, rancor or revenge. The methods of persecution adopted, therefore, are forms of communication using tools such as telephone, letters, text messages, e-mail or even graffiti or murals. * The second type of stalking behavior is made up of contacts that can be implemented either through direct control behaviors such as stalking or monitoring, or through direct comparison of behavior, such as home visits or on-site work, threats or assaults. Generally not found two types separate "pure" of stalkers, but harassment in mixed forms in which the first type, usually followed by a second kind of action. stalkizzante behavior was outlined in its specific details that set it apart from similar behaviors (GM Galeazzi, P. Curci, 2001). In this regard, three are particularly important characteristics of a nuisance because you can talk about "stalking" 1. the actor in the harassment, the stalker, it acts against a person who is designated as a victim under an ideo-affective investment, based on a real situation or relationship partially or wholly imagined (depending on the personality of departure and the level of contact with reality maintained); 2. stalking occurs through a series of behaviors based on communication and / or the contact, but in any case characteristics from the repetition, persistence and intrusiveness; 3. linked to the psychological pressure "coercion" of the behavioral and psychological terrorism stalker made, place the victim stalkizzata, also known as stalking victim, in a state of alert, emergency and psychological stress. These feelings may be linked both to the psychological perception of persecutory behaviors as unwelcome, intrusive and annoying, that the concern and anxiety resulting from fear for their safety. The compulsion that characterizes the behavior of stalking, and that should allow for even legally, he did suggest that this problem was a form of "obsessive." However, as has been observed, psychopathological disorders are characterized by obsessive ego-dystonic experiences relating to the conduct and, consequently, a malaise caused by the ideas, thoughts, mental images and surges from obsessive-related persecution. These feelings of distress and intrusion in reality are not usually present in the stalkers, on the contrary, they tend to even derive pleasure from persecution. Importantly also that the stalking is not a homogeneous phenomenon, so it is difficult to retract the harassers harassing a specific diagnostic category or always identify the presence of a genuine mental illness reference. The stalkers are not always people with a mental disorder and, although there are some forms of persecution that are acted out in the context of a psychopathology, this is not always present as a condition there is always an abuse of substances associated with the behavior stalkizzante. What is important to understand is that behind such behaviors as harassment can be hidden motivations very different. This conclusion was reached after studies that examined the psychological profile of many stalkers and, on the basis of which it has come to identify five types of stalkers, distinguished according to the needs and desires that are the engine of motivation. 1. A first type of persistent offender was described as "resentment". His behavior is driven by the desire to avenge a loss or who believe they have been wrong and it is fed by the quest for revenge. This is a rather dangerous category that could harm the image of the person first and then the person himself. The most serious problem is related to the lack of analysis of reality: why the anger is justified to consider their behavior that produces feelings of control over reality, in turn, tend to reinforce them. 2. The second type of stalker has been referred to as "in need of affection," a type that is motivated by the search for a report and attention that may affect their friendship or love. The victim is usually considered, because of generalization from one or more features observed even superficially, close to the "partner or friend to ideal," a person who can help you think through the desired relationship, to resolve the their lack of love or affection. Often the rejection of being denied re-interpreted and developed the belief he needs to unlock and overcome any psychological or practical difficulties. This category also includes a form called "sex maniac delusion," in which the need for affection is erotic and / stalker tends to read the responses in the victim's desire that he / she resists. The idea of \u200b\u200brejection, experienced as an intolerable attack on the ego, is rejected with great energy and high defense based sull'allontanamento structuring of real perception of the other, of his reaction and the real relationship that is replaced by imaginary. 3. A third type of persecutor is defined as "the incompetent suitor, who keeps a feeding behavior in their limited or no relational competence that leads to oppressive conduct, explicit, and when it fails to achieve the desired results, even aggressive and rude. This type of offender is generally less durable in pursuing the prosecution of the victim, but tends to repeat their behavior patterns change from person to harass. 4. There is also "the rejected", a persecutor who becomes such a reaction to a rejection. It is usually a former aims to restore the relationship or to take revenge for the abandonment. Often oscillates between two desires, behaviors manifesting extremely durable that can not be intimidated by the negative reactions manifestate dalla vittima: la persecuzione infatti rappresenta comunque una forma di relazione che rassicura rispetto alla perdita totale, percepita come intollerabile. Nella psicologia di questo tipo di “inseguitore assillante” gioca un ruolo cruciale il modello di attaccamento sviluppato che è una delle forme di tipo insicuro, in grado di scatenare angosce legate all’abbandono che creano una tendenza interiore, più o meno consapevole, a considerare l’assenza dell’altro come una minaccia di annientamento e di annullamento del Sé. 5. Infine, è stata descritta una categoria di stalker definita “il predatore” e costituita da un molestatore che ambisce ad avere rapporti sessuali con una vittima che can be followed, chased and frightened. Fear, in fact, picks up this type of stalker that feels a sense of power in organizing the attack. This kind of stalking can also affect children and may be done by people with eating disorders in the sexual sphere, such as pedophilia or fetishes. Many people who are harassed harassing women of age more frequently between 18 and 24. However, certain types of persecution, such as those linked to resentment or fear of losing the respect that comes from being rejected, are aimed primarily at women aged between 35 and 44. Some studies on the phenomenon in question showed interesting results that servono a riflettere ulteriormente sulle caratteristiche delle vittime di stalking e sull’importanza della relazione che, spesso solo nella mente dello stalker, si instaura con tutta la capacità di influenza che può esercitare una relazione reale. A questo proposito si è riscontrato che esiste una “categoria sociale a rischio di stalking” rappresentata da tutti gli appartenenti alle cosiddette “professioni d’aiuto”, vale a dire i medici, gli psicologi, gli infermieri e ogni altra sorta di “helper”. Ciò sembra trovare due spiegazioni: da un lato questi professionisti entrano in contatto con bisogni profondi di aiuto delle persone e possono facilmente divenire vittime di proiezioni di affetti e relazioni internalized, and secondly the excessive hopes for some "patients" may be betrayed by the daily work and stalking becomes a demand for attention or seeking revenge for the allocation of responsibility for the health or life of their own or their loved ones, aspects that are not in fact never completely in the hands of anyone. Since not all stalking situations are alike, you can not easily generalize the behavior patterns of defense that must be adapted to circumstances and different types of persecutors. However, there are some useful rules. * First, no denying the problem. Often, since none vuole considerarsi una “vittima”, si tende a evitare di riconoscersi in pericolo, finendo per sottovalutare il rischio e aiutando così lo stalker. Il primo passo è allora sempre quello di riconoscere il problema e di adottare delle precauzioni maggiori rispetto a quelle adottate dalle persone che non hanno questo problema. Occorre informarsi sull’argomento e comprendere i rischi reali, seguendo dei comportamenti volti a scoraggiare, quando è possibile, gli atti di molestia assillante. * Se la molestia consiste nella richiesta di iniziare o ristabilire una relazione indesiderata, è necessario essere fermi nel “dire di no” una sola volta e in modo chiaro. Altri sforzi di convincere il proprio persecutore insistente, including improvised psychological interpretations him / her tipped as in need of help and care, will be read as reactions to their behaviors and thus represent the reinforcements, as attention. The unwelcome return of a gift, a phone call from anger or a negative response to a letter they are warning signals that reinforce the stalking. * Behaviors very effective guard against the risk of attacks are those where you go out without careful follow predictable routine and habits, more crowded at times and places not isolated, perhaps by adopting a dog trained to protect, a way that has proved very useful both as a practical defense to increase the feeling of security. * If Telephone harassment is, do not change the number. Again, the frustration would increase the motivation to stalking. It is better to try to get a second line, leaving the old line to become one on which the offender may continue to call, and maybe reset the ringer and gradually respond less and less. * To produce evidence of the harassment to the police, not to get the anger or fear, and collect more data on the possible inconvenience caused. * It is useful to keep on hand more for a phone call in case of emergency. * If you plan to be followed or in danger, never go for a ride home or a friend, but go by the police. Unfortunately often, mainly because of legal rules that limit the actions of prevention of emergency situations, stalking behavior can be protracted with mainly negative psychological consequences for the victim, but also for those who act, and sometimes for the observer. The victim, no matter how short the period in which it is pursued, is likely to keep long the actual injury. The consequences of stalking in fact, for those who suffer, are often different and have been dragging for a long time chronic. Depending on the type of acts occurred, and the emotions experienced could arise from anxiety and sleeping problems or nightmares, flashbacks, but also real square Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The stalker who acts compulsively tends to follow their needs and to deny reality, gradually damaging their mental health and quality of social life which deteriorate more and more, as and when persecution continues over time. The public incidents of stalking can be restricted to a family audience, identifying the victim empathy, can develop concern for the loved one or vicarious forms of fear and anxiety. But the public at large, thanks to the important role of mass media, the society, in which the example of invasion of privacy can be tolerated a pattern of behavior which feeds the possibility of new phenomena, not least because those enactments are often explained (and justified in part) on the basis of "possible" going postal "or" excess of love. "
Lately, latito a bit 'from my blog due to various work in progress. I have several recipes in arrears a "warm winter" that before the arrival of March 21, 2010, I promised to post. So no more talk and we're off!
ravioli with radicchio di Chioggia
- 1 kg of ricotta - 1 kg of Chioggia radicchio - 2 red onions - 3 large eggs - 300 gr. parmesan - a scent of black pepper and nutmeg -
extra virgin olive oil For the sauce:
- butter, fresh sage, diced bacon
For the pastry:
- ½ kg of wheat flour - ½ kg of flour 00 - 10 eggs
Sauté the finely sliced \u200b\u200bonion in olive oil, add the radicchio, cut into thin strips salt and pepper. Stir, cover and let simmer for several minutes. Chicory must come to sfarsi''.'' Once cooked, remove the cover, to evaporate any excess liquid and let cool. At this point, work well in a large container cottage cheese, aggiungere il composto di radicchio, le uova (una alla volta), il parmigiano, e una grattatina di noce moscata. Porre il tutto in frigorifero a raffreddare. Preparare una sfoglia con uova e farina e tirarla ad uno spessore di un millimetro circa (comunque non deve essere eccessivamente sottile altrimenti i ravioli si rompono durante la cottura) tagliare con il tagliapasta e questo punto con un cucchiaio fare dei piccoli mucchietti di composto di radicchio e ricotta ben distanziati gli uni dagli altri. Rivoltare un lembo di pasta al di soprafar sigillare bene con la pressione delle dita. Al momento opportuno portare ad ebollizione abbondante acqua salata, immergervi i ravioli per pochissimi istanti e condire con burro e salvia (fatti scaldare precentemente) e guarnire con cubetti di pancetta rosolata. Portare subito in tavola, aggiungere parmigiano reggiano a piacere.
Ricetta apparsa nella newsletter QBSPACE di Venerdì 5 Marzo 2010.
Ho voglia di Primavera! Ho voglia di risveglio! Voglio sentirmi circondata da nuove e frizzanti spirali d'energia. Tutto questo l'ho chiesto all'Universo e l'Universo ha cominciato a rispondermi e a parlarmi...
Una delle tante risposte che l'Universo mi ha dato la trovate qui ;-D
Impastare é come una sorta di meditazione, Tu impasti e la tua mente vaga, vola, si rilassa ed i problemi diventando più less light hammering and change shape and color, and often become the solution, turning point.
few days ago as I prepared the recipe as posted, my eye fell on a sheet attached to my fridge for about three years: a message printed on thousands of posters left by a stranger in December 1991 on the Paris Metro.
"the hour today, there is a huge change in the vibrational and the earth and all life forms are affected by the increase of spiritual energy that it gradually penetrates the inner realms. The effect accelerates the evolution of behavioral patterns, both positive and negative. There apparently will be a marked increase in the negative as long that such schemes are not processed and released. As the dust is removed by shaking an object remained motionless for a long time. Know that during this cleaning an inner strength will appear. You will receive Divine vibration like never before, and care should be taken continuously to stabilize your energy to get ready for the next change and the next. These changes come as waves that are close to each other incessantly. Let yourself go and not stick obstinately to what in you is wrong. you feel heavy? Discover your burdens and let them fall! Find the food bulky, heavy thoughts, habits, confused, people exhausting? Relieve and high frequency of your physical body. Agree to the purest heart of Mother Earth and there you gently vibrate your body. Know that there is no way to avoid the transformation and no reason to be afraid. And also know that now all resistance to the truth will have an immediate impact. Be aware of the process as much as possible. Cooperate with the high order to which you belong. Look at the changes and the rise of movements. You will see a fast flow, so that will be difficult to follow the latest news, progress in various fields and particularly the degeneration of systems, beliefs, organizations. The secret is to simplify, collect, be a channel for all the high energy Love and Truth that now penetrate the planet. become increasingly pure spontaneous expression, and trust that comes from the heart. In this way, your sensitivity will increase, as well as the ability of your nerves, glands and body slim lead without increasing the voltages remain burned. We no longer have the luxury of a slow and gradual process of assimilation. Those who are in the direction of change will be stimulated by higher levels to request access to capacity increased. Your body turns. Meditate often and collect and continuously into the present moment. Open your heart, strengthen your physical body, surrender your addiction, your addictions, learn to really relax and maintain an attitude of joy. Receive the nourishment of the action, becoming aware of the process of channeling. May the Grace and Peace be with you. "
read it gave me a feeling of peace and gave a special energy to what I was cooking.
NOODLES FRESH PASTA CARBONARA THE VEGETARIAN
320 gr. fresh noodles 4 eggs 100 gr. 40 g of fresh cream. grated Parmesan cheese 300 gr. radicchio 50 gr. butter to taste Nutmeg to taste
Salt to taste Pepper
Shell le uova in una terrina ed aggiungere la panna, un pizzico di sale, una generosa manciata di pepe, un'abbondante grattata di noce moscata e il parmigiano grattugiato. Sbattere energeticamente con una forchetta fino a quando avrete un composto omogeneo. Copritelo con pellicola e tenetelo da parte. Lessate i tagliolini in abbondante acqua bollente leggermente salata; quando é ancora piuttosto al dente, spegnete il fuoco e aggiungete un bicchiere abbondante di acqua fredda in modo da fermare la cottura. Pulite, lavate, sgrondate e tritate grossolanamente il radicchio. Fate fondere il burro in una larga padella antiaderente, quando sarà spumeggiante, versatevi il composto di uova e lasciatelo rapprendere mescolando con una paletta finché sarà cremoso. Aggiungete well-drained pasta, radicchio prepared with salt and pepper. Blow up everything for a few seconds on high heat, stirring until the dough will be perfectly seasoned. Remove from heat, divide it into 4 plates, sprinkle with a handful of pepper and serve.
recipe appeared in the newsletter QBSPACE of Friday, February 27, 2010.
About two weeks ago I started reading a book that is helping me to make new discoveries: the way of . I started to read some positive comments from curious friends who had some impressive results through the daily exercises, in their creativity. I tomorrow, I will begin the second week and I must say I already see the effects: I FEEL THE SMELL OF SPRING! So much snow, rain, hail, frost, floods, news obituary effect, the crisis, the prices go up, the potholes in the streets, the smog, traffic, noise, etc. ... I feel the scent of spring! :-DI simple exercises or games of this brilliant book, does not allow me to absorb more of the ugliness of life as a sponge and suffer them in their effect of cosmic pessimism, but to see them and meet them in a different light, often succeeding to turn them into something positive and extremely helpful for my living.
PARFAIT ALLA CREMA DI LIMONE
75 gr di burro 8 cl di succo di limone la scorza grattugiata di 1 limone 120 gr di zucchero a velo 2 cucchiai di zucchero di canna 3 uova intere 3 fogli di gelatina 200 grammi di fragole 250 ml di panna fresca 8 savoiardi
Fate sciogliere il burro a fuoco dolce, poi aggiungere il succo di limone, la scorza grattugiata e le uova intere precedentemente sbattute con lo zucchero. Continuando a rimestare, portare questo composto al limite dell'ebollizione. All'apparire delle prime bolle, togliere immediatamente la casseruola dal fuoco, poi sbattere nuovamente con la frusta. Incorporare the gelatin sheet soaked in cold water and wrung out, strawberries cut into small pieces and seasoned with two tablespoons of brown sugar and then add the whipped cream. Line a mold for plum-cake with plastic wrap and put under the 8 sponge fingers over the mixture of cream and lemon. Let stand in refrigerator for 4 hours before serving and invert on a serving platter so that they remain on the biscuits.
recipe appeared in the newsletter QBSPACE of Friday, February 19, 2010.
a great friend, a great man, a great lover of life, yesterday left the planet Earth, to go dancing in the Heart of the Universe. He now is that there ride in the immense Ocean of Love, surrounded by great souls and eternal shining in a patrol in a vivencia endless. Rolando won the biodance humanity transforming the lives of thousands of people with the powerful force of love.
The impossible can happen
Because we have more energy than they receive. We light in the eye and migratory birds Why the impossible can happen.
Our steps full of conviction For the labyrinths of love ...
Argonauts for
unknown seas In search of inner calf Perché abbiamo l’energia del miracolo.
L’illusione, il germoglio e il rovere tagliato L’uragano col nome di donna E il cuore palpitando Anche senza amore Perché l’impossibile può succedere.
L’angelo azzurro del nostro letto Aspettando il suo nuovo destino Perché il miracoloso ha la faccia di angelo.
Abbiamo figli nel breve spazio di cento anni E il nostro amore è infinito.
Abbiamo una lettera d’amore tra le mani E campi di grano grandi e dorati In una spiga del sogno. Perché l’impossibile è il quotidiano.
Tratto dal libro Lo Imposible Puede Suceder (the impossible can happen)
Even today, the sky got snowflakes, even today with the nose imagined the blue sky beyond the clouds, but today is a new day, a day other than Saturday, a day when greeting the past and live the present. I'm on a new road and new clothes and dress you my feet, finally, I have the red shoes, with heels, Dorothy.
ANCHOVY FILLETS WITH ROASTED PEPPERS
16/20 anchovies
1 yellow pepper 1 red pepper 1 egg
lemon juice to taste Oregano to taste Chives
1 dl olive oil Salt to taste Pepper to taste
flake anchovies, without the head and backbone, and wash the fillets. Place in a shallow dish, add a pinch of salt, sprinkle with lemon juice and marinate for 2 hours turning them from time to time. Meanwhile, cook the egg for 8 / 10 minutes making firm, cool in cold water, peel and chop. Far from all toast the peppers over the flame and put them in a paper bag, let them cool, peeled, split in half, remove seeds and pith inside, wash quickly, cut into strips and put them in a bowl, add the oregano, chives, olive oil, a pinch of salt, pepper and mix the ingredients, then join the chopped hard-boiled egg. Place the mixture of peppers in a serving dish and lay it over the anchovy fillets, drained from the marinade.
recipe appeared in the newsletter QBSPACE of Friday, February 12, 2010.
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